Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Jackpots aren'ts always in casinos

There it was---something worth over $700 with a $30 tag on it! But first, let's swt the stage....
We had vistitors this past week!
My parents came and brought my Dad's brother, Duane, along for a tour of our neck of the woods!Long, long overdue with any time with my uncle the past 10 years. He hadn't ever been to Roswell, New Mexico, or near this area. It was a joy to get close to him again and give him highlights of what the American SouthWest is all about! We live an hour away from the "Most Dangerous Street in the USA". It's where the legendary gunslinger Billy the Kid, Pat Garrett and the whole Young Guns gang were riding horses, marrying local girls and hiding out for their lives. We live 2 hours from Carlsbad Caverns, the largest caving systems in the USA. Go 3 hours from here and you'll find yourself immersed in the most beautiful and serine natual landscape known as White Sands. It's also where the bomb heard round the world was created and tested. We live in Roswell. We are the dairy capital of the USA but we are more known for the alien crash landing of 1947. We live in Alien Town.
We have a nifty trader at the South end of Roswell and we always take our visitors to see what is in store. Located in the midst of dairies and near human food fields, Blair's is the local used furniture, antiques, estate sale items, tools and convenience goodies like movie popcorn munching while you shop kind of place. Last visit, we bought our slighty used back pation fireplace seating set for nearly half of what would be expected in a store. Everyone was perusing. Finn was in the toy aisle. Uncle was consumed with reading all the signs on the wall. Finn ran up and dragged me into the furniture room. Rows of bedroom sets, office chairs, desks, bureaus and miscellaneous items filled the space. I always look at the framed artworks available anywhere. Sometimes just for the frames, sometimes for the gem inside. I recognized an artwork and choked when I saw what I had in my hands....a genuine Claude Monet lithograph of "Camille and the child" also known as "Madame Monet and Child" circa 1875. I turned over the frame and there it was. All the details from the art gallery who lovingly framed and sealed this artistic artifact. It had a piece of tape on it with $30 handwritten on it. I collected myself and nonchalantly asked the cashier to hold the frame behind the counter until I was finished shopping. I giggled to myself throughout the entire store. They had no idea what they had on their hands. Sometimes it pays to be art smart! Claude Monet is most well-known today for his series of serene water lilies paintings, 19th-century Impressionist Claude Monet was a groundbreaking tour de force in the development of expressive art. Throughout his long life, which spanned the years between 1840 and 1926, Monet would progress from drawing amusing caricatures of friends to capturing the elusive nuances of natural scenes in various attitudes of light and color. Along with the other Impressionists, Monet's aim in his painting was to capture reality and analyse the ever-changing nature of light and color. He recorded his surrounding faithfully, from the grime of a Paris railway station to the beauty of his later paintings based on the gardens he created at Giverny in north-eastern France. Monet is one of the most influencial artists of the modern era. The ways he manipulated the brush and paint, used mediums that he could afford. His visions of the everyday life for him. Monet was not without tragedy. While carrying their second child, Camille Monet contracted tuberculosis, and weakened by childbirth, died in 1879. The painting, Camille on Her Deathbed, is Monet's final tribute to his wife, a figure covered in flower blossoms and feathery brush strokes, her face bathed in light. Following his loss, the artist completed a series of 12 frozen ice landscapes as he mourned.Muted colors, frozen landscapes paved the way and by the next decade, he had found those pops of color and lively landscapes you may recognize. Claude Monet and his second wife, Alice, had moved their family to the hamlet of Giverny where they bought a home with property in 1890. Monet set to work to create a private haven where he would produce some of his most well-loved works over the final decades of his life. His series of water lily pond paintings, which consists of approximately 300 canvases in total, 40 of them in large format. Claude Monet had painted his first renditions in the 1890s but produced the majority of the works during the final two decades of his life. After losing both his second wife, Alice, and his eldest son, Jean, in 1911 and 1914 respectively, Claude Monet sought consolation by embarking upon a great new work, a series of massive Water Lilies panels. 


And now you know a little bit about Claude Monet and you can sound cultured when the time is right!

Friday, April 11, 2025

New Mexican artist's work hits International stage for a second time this year


Cris Ness, a visionary artist based in Roswell, New Mexico, is set to captivate audiences with her powerful mixed media work, "A Mother's Touch," as part of Ten Moir Gallery's highly-anticipated online exhibition, "Behind the Mask." Opening on April 12, 2025, this exhibition features a diverse array of international artists who explore the underlying emotions and narratives hidden behind the masks we wear in everyday life.

Cris Ness, who resides in Roswell, New Mexico, is celebrated for her innovative approach to contemporary art. The piece selected for this exhibition is a poignant reflection of her experiences during the COVID-19 pandemic. Created in the solitude of her home studio, "A Mother's Touch" emerged amidst the emotional uncertainty of lockdown. Ness recalls the moment of inspiration vividly: “At the time, I had few art supplies. I had sketch paper and charcoal from our wood stove. I had taken a photograph of my 2-year-old daughter while she was playing with her doll. She was worriedly trying to apply a Mask for her baby. After I sketched the work, I scanned and then applied digital watercolors to the piece. I wanted delicate shading for this piece.”

This artwork serves not only as a personal narrative but also as a universal representation of the challenges faced by parents during the pandemic and the unknown future. The image encapsulates the innocence of childhood, the instinct to protect loved ones, and the often-overlooked emotional struggles that accompany parenting in difficult times.

"Behind the Mask" is more than just an exhibition; it is a global conversation featuring works from esteemed artists representing diverse perspectives. Each piece included in the exhibition invites viewers to ponder what lies beneath the façades we present to the world. This initiative aligns with Ten Moir Gallery's commitment to showcasing thought-provoking art and fostering meaningful dialogues within the community.

The online platform of the exhibition allows art lovers worldwide to engage with these powerful narratives from the comfort of their homes. With artists contributing their unique interpretations, "Behind the Mask" promises to be a rich tapestry of expression, reflecting the myriad emotions and stories shared during a time of collective hardship and introspection.

In addition to exploring individual pieces, the exhibition provides an opportunity for audiences to contemplate broader societal themes, such as the significance of mental health, resilience, and the importance of human connections. As viewers navigate through the exhibition, they will be encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the masks they wear in their daily lives.

With the opening of "Behind the Mask" on the horizon, art enthusiasts and the general public alike are eagerly anticipating the unveiling of these transformative works. The exhibition will be accessible online, offering an inclusive space for discussion and exploration.

Ness's "A Mother's Touch" stands as a striking representation of the intertwining threads of motherhood and resilience during unprecedented times. As Ten Moir Gallery prepares to launch this thought-provoking exhibition, audiences are invited to delve into the depths of human experience through art. For more information about the exhibition and to explore the featured works, please visit Ten Moir Gallery's online platform.

The exhibition will be unveiled at https://tenmoirgallery.com/

Sunday, April 6, 2025

Nobody Cares, Work Harder

That's what my latest sticker from Finn says. She was so proud when she gave it to me, too. "It reminded me of you, Mom. You always say this and you mean it!" The gift of having a Gen X Mom. Can you feel my proud smile?! It got me thinking about my current state of affairs....Perimenopause. I officially entered into that in 2024 or at least was labeled. There were 4 times during the year I had a mega hot flash that ended in loss of consciousness. What would begin as a slight anxious feeling, soon flooded into sweat coming out of every pore. Cue the racing heartbeat and difficulty breathing. My mind would race and tell me, "Hey, you gotta get out of here. Go. Now. You gotta get out of here." Luckily, I never was seriously injured because I was often standing in front of a mirror, watching to see what the fuck my body was doing (taking notes, you know) and then coming out of it listening to my husband or my kids talking me back into existance. I would always be talking back and my mind was so far away. Very out of body feeling. 
After several blood tests and visits with my physician, everything came back that I am fit as a fiddle and healthy as can be. Even my heart murmur had improved with my lifestyle. My hashimotos has been in check thanks to fully adipting my lifestyle and keeping within my dietary needs. In fact, if given blood tests, I am in the normal range for everything!
The verdict was these were just some nasty ass hot flashes that accompany perimenopause. Are you kidding me?!The shit. In case you don't know, Perimenopause, also known as the menopause transition, is the period when your ovaries gradually begin to produce less estrogen. This stage typically starts in your early 40s but can begin as early as your 30s or as late as your 50s. I'm 52. Things just began to get whacky. Nobody ever said they passed out with this garbage. My doctor said some bodies react that way and mine is one of them. Thank God, I only had 4 hot flashes that year. LOL 
I am not a candidate for Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) because of my family's history. Holistic it is, I say with a smile. Herbs take a while to build in the system so I immediately began taking Ashwaganda and magnesium. My hot flashes definitely have improved and I can have one without anyone barely noticing. Cue the insomnia, night sweats, anxiety attacks, getting shitfaced off of 1 cocktail, waking up nauseated, feeling fatigued. Most bothersome for me is the anxiety. I know what I'm thinking is not reality. 
I've still been able to keep up with my workouts for mind, body and soul, but I have had days I've listened to my body when I need it. I have big aspirations of completing a mini triathlon in July. Fingers crossed this body cooperates! One of my BODi buddies reached out to check in and I spilled my guts on what my body has been doing. Even though, I am one of, if not, THE oldest in our workout group, I am just entering this stage of life and some of them are already into Menopause (that's when you haven't had a period in 12 months in a row). 
I love my fit girls. Lillian, Tina, Annika, Jez....We serious can and DO talk about anything freely. Ro--I love you. She told me about a product that she thought would help. She also had loss of consciousness with hot flashes, severe anxiety and no alcohol tolerance. We joked about being the cheapest dates in town for our husbands :) Make Wellness has come out with a product called CALM, a peptide support for my arsenal against this transition. It's a powder you just put on your tongue and swallow. Delicious and easy! Within 3 weeks, I already noticed less night sweats, the insomnia has improved 50% and my anxiety has made my racing mind a kosher cucumber. No more needless worries or anxiety attacks! And at less than $50/month ABSOLUTELY Game changer! 
I also use a cheap shopping club for household everyday items and hit up the supplement section to ease my other symptoms. A 3-in-1 supplement that eases menstrual symptoms, creatine to combat muscle loss related to perimenopause, and electrolytes to drink during hot flashes or night sweats for recovery. Post workout peptides for quicker muscle recovery. All of these supplements could run me $$$ but because there will never be tariffs for this company (MADE IN THE USA), the prices will continue to be rock bottom!
 I'm learning there's over 50 symptoms of Perimenopause. For me, going through battery of medical tests to rule things out, taking these herbs and peptides has mostly alleviated my personal symptoms. The key is working with your physician, keeping up on a workout calendar, and talking to your gal pals and guys who have tread before you. 
Every body is different but eventually you'll find someone who is going through or has gone through the symptoms you are battling.
If you are in these trenches? What are your obstacles right now?

Tuesday, April 1, 2025

Ness Masterpiece Selected for Winter Exhibition

 

Renowned Roswell Artist Cris Ness' Masterpiece Selected for Prestigious International Winter Exhibition

Local Roswell Artist Cris Ness Secures Place in Prestigious International Winter Art Exhibition

Roswell, NM - Renowned artist Cris Ness celebrates a significant milestone as her captivating masterpiece, Ladies By The Water, earns a coveted spot in the esteemed online Winter art exhibition hosted by Art Collide. The powerful impressionism piece was crafted with the artist's daughters as the muse, adding a personal touch to this remarkable creation.

The Winter art exhibition, which is currently available for viewing online on the Art Collide website, showcases a diverse array of artistic forms, creating a dynamic and engaging show for art enthusiasts worldwide. With its rich cultural tapestry and creative diversity, the exhibition promises to captivate audiences and celebrate the boundless talents of artists like Cris Ness.

"I'm thrilled to be part of this prestigious exhibition and have my work featured alongside other talented artists from around the globe. Ladies By The Water holds a special place in my heart, reflecting the beauty and essence of my daughters in a way that resonates with viewers," expresses Cris Ness.

A multifaceted artist with an international reach, Cris Ness has left an indelible mark on the art world with her innovative creations and distinctive style. Having conducted captivating LIVE art exhibits across the upper midwestern United States and exhibited in various European countries, Cris Ness continues to push the boundaries of contemporary art and capture the imagination of art aficionados worldwide.

Ness's artistic prowess is further validated by the inclusion of her works in esteemed private collections, including that of a former South Dakota Governor. Her ability to evoke emotion and convey depth through her art has earned her widespread acclaim and positioned her as a trailblazer in the realm of contemporary art.

As the Winter art exhibition unfolds on the virtual stage of Art Collide, art enthusiasts, collectors, and critics alike are invited to immerse themselves in the captivating world of Cris Ness's artistry. With each brushstroke and color palette, Cris Ness weaves a narrative that transcends boundaries and speaks to the soul, making her a true luminary in the global art community.

For more information on the current exhibition and to explore Cris Ness's captivating artwork, please visit Art Collide's website at www.art-collide.com.

It's 2025---Time FLIES!!

With the craziness of a worldwide pandemic shutdown, and the fallout, time flies and I had forgotten all about my FaeryBoop Realm community! Hey, the time had profound affects on me, including an 18 pound weight gain. My art stopped when the pandemic began. I had an exhibition happening in Italy, making me an International artist, and the Tuscany gallery had to close. My art died. I was in complete SURVIVAL mode for a while. It happens when all the things you love to do to feel grounded gets yanked by the government----no swimming, no hiking, no biking.

Well, I could go on and on about my disdain but I won't :O Let's get you up to speed on our world.

Clayton is now a Detective and has received numerous awards for his achievements with the latest and greatest being chosen as THE VETERANS OF FOREIGN WARS LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER OF THE YEAR 2024! We really have acclimated to being that blue line family. It takes a team to make this dream work and we each give it our all. 

In the past 5 years, we've hosted 2 weddings, one in New Mexico and one in South Dakota. We now have 2 amazing son-in-laws who have quickly become another member of the family. We love the balance they give to our little family. They fit so well that Finn just realized I am not their Mom. Quite the compliment! I strive to be a support for all of our kids. We also became grandparents. We weren't sure how that hat was going to feel. Finn and Summer weren't sure on how to be aunts. We didn't really know how to be OUR KIND of grandparents. We worried needlessly----we are all naturals :) LOL Our family is filled with sassy, strong spirited girls and she has followed suit! We love her antics!

The lovely covid weight needed to be dealt with. I built up my home gym and made that a priority. I lost half of what I needed that first month. The rest was found when I took up an elimination diet challenge and identified foods that were causing full body inflammation. I continued on my journey and as of today, I have been steady strength training and still incorporating pilates seasonally for five years now. In that 5 years, I've taken my fitness to new heights. At 50, I competed in Muscle & Fitness magazine's cover contest and I topped out in the top 1 percent in the world!


I also made amazing friendships with people all over the world I talk to on a daily basis. I was chosen by the BODi platform to be in their filming cast for the first ever Spanish speaking workouts and I appear in many of the BODi building segments. Finn has grown up watching her mom on TV. Doing a workout comes naturally to her. I also was able to inspire my family to get into the concept of wellness.

 This journey of life stopping, and then recognizing cycles in myself, caused me to hire a trusted life coach. Such a rewarding and difficult experience. I did not realize how much losing my baby sister when I was 5 years old had shaped and affected my belief system, how that shaped decisions for years to come. If you are interested in hiring a life coach, I can recommend a few people. Just ask! Hiring that life coach helped me recognize my reactions, the whys, how to rewire that thinking. Just an total indepth evaluation of how I operate without judgement. I am how I am and this is why and why it is OK. This look inward also helped me identify things outside of myself as well. I reached out to people I had let go that meant something to me. I found myself having the courage to be more vulnerable that I had ever been. Again, quite the journey! 

BODi ended up fizzling out. Still love the workouts and trainers and now some are fitness acquaintences. I just don't work the business module any longer. I also attained my NASM virtual coaching certification and can legally train people via the internet just as I was doing with BODi. 

Daughter Sydnie and I opened up my dream of having a backyard swim school last summer. We had 2 sessions of lessons and had doubled the number of kids in that second session! It grew. It was nice to get my lifesaving/swim coaching and CPR credentials back in my life. I love teaching kids how to safe around the water!

This past year found us making the most of every day with our aging babies. Chica passed on the end of August and Gunther followed her six months later. That has been quite a change for our family as the babies were part of our lives for 10 years. In the year leading up to their deaths, we had a large Belgium Malanois who was obviously abandoned and ended up taking refuge in our carport 3 months. After Chica passed, we let her in. Winnie is a proud member of the Ness Clan now. Her presence really did extend our time with Gunther. He enjoyed having her around.

This year's focus for me has been my getting my artwork back out there. I have started this year with a bang! In January, I donated one of my artworks to the Roswell Police Department to be given away as a door prize at the annual awards ceremonies. Clayton's office is set up like a private museum and is even included on police department tours for the public. I was asked specifically for a submission from one of my fans who is a Brass in the PD. I also earned an exhibition spot in a Winter 2024 open call online event for Art Collide! Please check this exhibit out, there is so much talent in this show! I have a few more hooks out there to round out the year and I am hopeful to get into a physical exhibition to take my family to and we can make an event of it with our smoking jackets, fancy clothes and snooty dinners with private collectors :) 

Ladies and Gentlemen: The Lady is Back :)

Now that I've found this again---stay tuned! I'll try to update this weekly! Much love!